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💥 HAPPY NEW YEAR! 💥

Celebrating 35 years of Toto Tours

TIME AND TIDE Linger FOR NO Male . . .

Flowing Gently with Life

Toto Tours is celebrating its 35th Anniversary in 2025, and it has been my privilege to bring this business into existence and to share so many life-changing experiences with all of you over these decades. This desire for travel has been my factual calling in experience, but now I need to heed other calls from my family and friends and from my own body and spirit.

I will be hanging up my Ruby Slippers at the conclusion of our final tour next year. Toto Tours may very well continue on, with me in an advisory role for a limited time after that. Details are still being ironed out and I’ll maintain you posted. The upcoming tours symbolize our best chance to say farewell to each other in person. I hope you will travel with me at least one more time before the end of next year.

This decision feels absolutely right for me, and it brings me great tranquility of mind. I recognize the correctness of impermanence - nothing lasts forever - and I want to depart gracefully while I still have my full faculties and so much more living to accomplish. Please join m

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